Sunday, September 25, 2011

Happy Birthday Grandma!

I'm a little behind on my blogging...but last Friday, September 23 would have been my Grandma's 73rd birthday.  It's hard to believe that she is gone.  We all miss her but know she is in a better place.

Love you Grandma!





Ummm...Thanks for the advice (I guess)

It's funny how much attention pregnant ladies get in public.  Mostly from people we don't even know.  For the most part, I think people are just trying to be nice by engaging in conversation.  It seems like everyone asks "when are you due" and "is it your first?".  Most of the time I just respond that it's my first and I'm due in January.  So much easier than having to explain my life to a total stranger.  Matt is just waiting for the day when someone I don't know asks me when I'm due and I respond to them that I'm not actually pregnant or that I have already had the baby.  He thinks it'd be hilarious to watch their reaction.   After getting questioned about being pregnant, most people also offer up advice.  "Don't count on the baby coming before your due date, the first ones always take a little longer" or "Make sure you get lots of rest while you are pregnant because you won't get any sleep in a few months"...stuff like that.  It's just funny to me how people think that they should just offer up advice to a complete stranger.

One thing that cracks me up and that has happened to me on several occasions is the response after someone asks when my due date is and I respond January 2.  For instance today I ran into a store at the mall and was paying for something when the cashier asked me about my due date.  I told her that I was due on January 2 and she said "Oh I hope you have him on January 8, because that is my daughters birthday."  REALLY??  I know she was just being nice, but seriously....I do not know this lady, nor do I know her daughter.  Why would I want to target her daughter's birthday to have my son?  I don't even know how to respond to total strangers when they say stuff like that.  Again, I know people are just trying to be nice and I do appreciate that.  It's just funny the kinds of things that people feel the need to say.

I could make this blog entry really long with all of the weird things that have been said to me during my pregnancies.  I'll give one more example and leave it at that, though :o)  Recently I was sitting down and I had my arms crossed on the top of my belly.  This guy (may I add he has a rather large potbelly) spoke to me in a joking manner and said "wow, you are really getting quite a shelf there".  I politely laughed at his (bad) joke.  But I secretly wanted to respond "yep, at least I have the reason of being 20+ weeks pregnant for my shelf".

As much as I like to poke fun at the weird things that are said to me, I really do have so many people that are thinking about us all of the time and praying for us.  I appreciate all of them!!  It hasn't been easy to make it to 26 weeks, but here we are!  Every day from here is a bonus for this baby.  T-minus 99 days people!!!

Sunday, September 18, 2011


Weeks 25-28 (month 6): Eggplant



The Bump



Ready for what Month 6 has to bring!  Hopefully it's a growing boy!



Sunday, September 11, 2011

23 Weeks 6 Days-- Goal #1 Successful!

Today I am officially pregnant longer than I was last time.  I've made it to 23 weeks, 6 days.  I had Braelyn at 23 weeks, 5 days, so this is a huge milestone for us!  Every day from here is a bonus for this baby.  Everything is still going fine with the pregnancy and I'm being watched closely.  I'm so grateful I get to see my precious baby every Wednesday!  I truly cherish each moment that I get to see his face.  I have 113 days left in this pregnancy, but my next goal is to make it to 28 weeks.  As you can see from the chart below, the odds are quite good after 28 weeks.  Thank you to everyone for the thoughts and prayers.  They are truly working!  I can't wait to meet my miracle baby...but not until December I hope!


Length of Pregnancy
Likelihood of Survival
23 weeks
17%
24 weeks
39%
25 weeks
50%
26 weeks
80%
27 weeks
90%
28-31 weeks
90-95%
32-33 weeks
95%
34+ weeks
Almost as likely as a full-term baby
Sources: March of Dimes, Quint Boenker Preemie Survival Foundation

Monday, September 5, 2011

23 Weeks 0 Days

I have made it to 23 weeks today!  In my pregnancy with Braelyn, today would have been the day I went into the hospital.  I am feeling blessed that with this pregnancy I could enjoy turning 23 weeks.   Now to just get through Saturday...that will be 23 weeks 5 days, the day that I had Braelyn.  I think Baby Squirt has a good chance to make it to the viable stage!